Even the Best Self Help Gurus Don’t Get it Right 100% of the Time
If the message doesn’t resonate, it isn’t for you.
Every self help guru (myself included) has a message that’s only meant for a certain audience. If it doesn’t resonate with you, move on.
We each have our specialties.
🍔 You wouldn’t go to a fast food restaurant for a gourmet meal.
🧘🏻♀️You wouldn’t walk into a yoga studio expecting a jazzercise class.
One is not better than the other, they each serve a different audience with different needs.
As you read the many self help books on your ever growing bookshelf, understand that some of them may not work for you.
This doesn’t mean they offer bad advice or are hacks. It simply means that what they offer isn’t what you are looking for.
Here’s an example:
For years, many of my friends and colleagues in the personal development field swore by meditation, manifestation, and …
I couldn’t help by feel that I just wasn’t at their level.
Sitting in quiet meditation is excruciating for me. And don’t get me started on vision boards! (I’ve talked about vision boards before, they aren’t my thing)
One of the very first woo-woo books I remember buying so many year ago was Creative Visualization by Shakti Gawain. I think I still have a copy somewhere. I read that book over and over and still the whole visualization thing felt awkward to me. It felt fake. But, since her book was popular and she was considered an expert in her field, it must have been me. I wasn’t doing it right, or I wasn’t dedicated enough.
Eventually, I just stopped trying to visualize and manifest.
Along comes Human Design and I discover that I manifest differently. I’ve always done it, I just didn’t think I was “manifesting” since it didn’t match what all the experts said it should look like. I didn’t know there was any other way. I had been doing it without realizing it!
If, like me, yoga isn’t your thing, try Tai Chi or another martial art.
If silent meditation in lotus position makes you anxious, try a walk in the park or sitting at the beach.
Whether you’re looking for manifesting techniques, relaxation, meditation or any other personal development tools, follow your heart and your gut. Listen to your body, do what works for you, and leave the rest aside.
When one method doesn’t feel right, it only means it isn’t a right fit for you.
It’s February and love is in the air!
And I have a special Valentine’s Day gift for you. If you have a special someone and would like to see how to plan your perfect Valentine’s date then this fun, free Valentine’s Day Human Design report for you.
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Whichever one you choose, enjoy getting to know your sweetie a little better this Valentines Day ♥️
